In defense of defensiveness
In Defense of our Defense Mechanisms
The journey to self-compassion lies in developing greater tolerance of the body’s defense mechanisms that show up as defensiveness.
Therapy session-preparing for trauma work
Preparing for Trauma Work in Therapy
If you want to prepare for therapy, one of the best things you can do prior to your session is to do some background reading on how trauma manifests and about the therapeutic approach decided upon by you and your therapist.
Mixed Race Identity Is Not Novelty
Mixed race identity is not a novelty. It has coexisted with monoracial identity.
Retreat as Part of Your Self-Care Package
Retreating is a form of wisdom and an act of self-care to feed the soul, body and mind.
Slowing Down in a World Obsessed with Productivity
Slowing down increases out ability to be empathetic and reserves our energy for what matters in life.
Self-Compassion and Self-Judgment
Self-compassion is an import from Buddhist psychology that works well with mindfulness to calm our inner critic.
Letting Fear Run Amok During Covid-19
We're wired for all the things that promote survival and anxiety is one of them. Where does fear mongering go overboard?
Imposter Syndrome Doubt Anxiety Stress urim recovery
Imposter Syndrome is Real
Imposter Syndrome can manifest in acccomplished individuals and is characterized by chronic self-doubt and fear of being exposed as a fraud.
Codependency and Authenticity
Codependency can be viewed as an attachment issue of having its roots in addictive behavior. Either way, tapping into your authentic self is part of the healing process.
